Is there anything so satisfying as your first sip of freshly brewed coffee, first thing in the morning?
I drink a green smoothie almost every morning – and though it goes against all health and nutrition ‘rules’, I have to have a mug of coffee before I have my glass o’ vegetables.
This morning, I was extra exuberant about my morning cup o’ joe and as soon as my mug was full, I took a huge gulp, not pausing to think about just how hot a freshly brewed cup of coffee is.
I don’t know what came over me – generally I let it sit, blow on it a few times, sip slowly to savor. But this time? A gulp. You’ve been there – that moment when your mouth and tongue are scalding and tears are practically streaming out of your eyes and you have a split second to decide whether to keep going and see your gulp through to the end or spit it back out and hope it saves your poor mouth from feeling funny all day.
I could’ve stood there, with my mouth full of burning hot liquid and tears streaming down my face, and waited for it to cool down. I could’ve fought the urge to spit it out all over my living room.
I didn’t. (of course)
I spit the coffee back into my cup. And then I threw it out and got a new, freshly brewed cup of coffee…
Sometimes things that seem like they should be good for us can cause us pain, even if we have enjoyed those things a hundred times before.
That cup of hot coffee still had value. Really, there was nothing wrong with it except the gulp that caused me discomfort and pain. But, sometimes the best thing you can do is to cut your losses and move on to what’s next. Get a new cup.
Change is hard.
Redefining yourself, your direction, your path and destination can feel overwhelming and uncertain.
Don’t spend your energy holding on to things that are old, in the past. Redefine, redirect – let go of fighting the old and instead, build the new.
I love this.
Build the new.